Currently on the market?  Good for you, girl!  But make sure you read this post before rushing into a new relationship.  Here are ten types of man that are not likely to make you happy, and from my point of view, it’s better to stay away from them as soon as they show one of these patterns.

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Here are my five foolproof ways for  keeping that fire a-burnin’…

1. Choose Your Battles
It sounds cliché, but this is truly one of the most important ingredients to a long-lasting relationship. It definitely isn’t easy, especially when he’s done something that is so juvenile (such as leaving his dirty socks on top the coffee table … gross), but I know from experience that blowing up time and again over little, insignificant irritants – in the grand scheme of things – is not the way to go. If he stays out all night with his boys at questionable bars without giving you a call, then by all means let him have it. Otherwise try your damndest to turn the other cheek (because really, who wants to waste precious Gossip Girl time arguing about laundry?).

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In the year 1999, online dating had major stigma attached to it and was considered something people with no social life HAD to do. Fast Forward to 2009 and the online dating world is now a $300 million a year industry. Those that online date swear by it – and of course there are those exceptions of successful relationships – but, in a city like New York, where being single is actually “cool,” meeting people is really not as difficult as one may think, and being a fabulous female lessens the fear of rejection, I am still not yet totally convinced online dating is the way to go…

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Psychologists claim, that the longer the man gazes at a woman when meeting her for the first time, the more interested he is in the object of his attention. The opposite is true as well, the shorter the gaze, about 4 seconds, the less interested he is.

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